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friends-mcp

by ourostack

@ouro.bot/friends

An open identity, relationship, and multiplayer substrate for AI agents. Who am I, who are you, who else is in the room — for any harness, any agent.

License: Apache-2.0 npm  ·  store-only  ·  transport-agnostic  ·  no daemon  ·  alpha

"It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important. […] People have forgotten this truth," said the fox. "But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed." — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince

An agent meets the same people over and over — across a CLI, a chat thread, an email, a voice call — and it meets other agents. friends is where it keeps track of who it knows: a single merged identity per person (who they are across every channel), the notes it has written about them, and where each relationship sits on a trust ladder. A stranger is just another voice until ties are established; establishing those ties — taming, in the book's word — is what moves someone from stranger to acquaintance to friend to family, and what makes the agent behave differently toward them.


What friends is

friends is a library + an MCP server that gives an agent a who's-who. It is deliberately narrow:

  • Store-only. Every tool reads or writes records. There is no agent turn, no LLM call, no session — which is exactly what makes it harness-agnostic. The same package serves Claude Code, Codex, a Copilot CLI, or anything else that can call a function or speak MCP.

  • Transport-agnostic. When two agents need to exchange something, friends produces and consumes a plain envelope; the wire between them is the caller's job. An optional git-mailbox transport ships alongside, but the core never opens a socket.

  • No daemon. Nothing to run in the background. Point it at a directory and call it.

  • Bring your own storage. The library never decides where or how your data lives — you pass a path (or a connection string) and, if you want, your own storage backend.

It is built as six additive capability layers. Each is a minimal primitive on the one before it; none is a workflow engine; removing any layer leaves the ones beneath it unchanged.


Related MCP server: openfuse-mcp

What it does — the six capabilities

1. Identity + the cross-agent moat

The foundation: recognize a person across every channel, and decide how much to trust them.

Every person or peer the agent meets becomes a FriendRecord — one merged identity that collapses all of someone's channel handles together, keyed by a join key (provider:externalId, never a local UUID). The same person reached on a CLI today and a chat thread tomorrow resolves to the same record.

Relationships sit on a four-rung trust ladder (family / friend / acquaintance / stranger), and the agent's behavior is gated by where someone sits on it. Two agents that have never shared a database can agree a party is the same person and share what they know about them — with consent, and without first-party knowledge ever being clobbered. First-party knowledge is structurally inviolable and trust is non-transitive: an import can add an attributed, quarantined note, but it can never change who you trust. (See Trust & consent model.)

2. Connectivity — the git-backed mailbox fallback

How two agents actually reach each other, without a server in the middle. (This git-mailbox is the demoted offline/no-endpoint fallback — real A2A + the friends E2E overlay is the primary path; see @ouro.bot/friends/a2a-client.)

The optional @ouro.bot/friends/mailbox sub-export is a pure git-mailbox transport: zero runtime dependencies, and it does no git or network itself. The host does every git op (clone / pull / add / commit / push); the library only computes a message file's path + bytes and parses / validates / orders / dedups the files the host hands back. Two agents authenticate as two distinct git identities sharing a private mailbox repo; each agent is the single writer of its own outbox.

The mailbox is treated as untrusted infrastructure: a hostile mailbox can only deny or replay — never escalate — because an import never touches first-party notes or trust.

2b. The primary transport — real A2A + an end-to-end security overlay

The @ouro.bot/friends/a2a-client sub-export is the host-side adapter that makes friends agents speak the real A2A (Agent2Agent) standard — message/send, agent cards at a well-known URL, a single structured DataPart per envelope — and adds the end-to-end security overlay that keeps the wire safe even when a relay sits in the middle. It is the only part of the package that has a runtime dependency (libsodium-wrappers); the core stays zero-dep and transport-agnostic.

A friends exchange is one A2A message whose DataPart carries a sealed envelope. Before it ever hits the wire, the envelope is:

  • signed by the sender — Ed25519 over the RFC 8785 JCS canonical bytes, carried in the envelope's reserved proof slot; and

  • sealed to the recipient — XChaCha20-Poly1305 AEAD over an ephemeral X25519 ECDH key, with the recipient's DID bound into the AEAD associated-data so a blob cannot be re-targeted.

The signature lives inside the ciphertext (sign-then-seal), so a relay never even learns who signed. Cryptographic identity is did:key (zero-infra — the agent's DID is its Ed25519 key, and the X25519 keyAgreement key is derived from it) or did:web (resolved behind an injectable hook). Identity is agentId === did, pinned trust-on-first-use, with trust-tiered key rotation (a family/friend peer may present a signed successor proof; acquaintances/strangers re-confirm out of band).

A rotation needs both keys. The OLD key signs the successor statement (rotationProof, from signSuccessor), and the NEW key signs its own consent (successorProof, from signSuccessorConsent), which covers the old DID, the new DID, the new key and issuedAt. Without the second signature a peer could name any real DID and public key as its successor. signFullSuccessor builds both from the two keys. evaluateRotation verifies both before it writes anything and rejects with missing_successor_proof or bad_successor_proof. The successor DID must also belong to the successor key: a did:key must encode the presented key, and every rotation of a non-did:key DID, a same-DID key change included, needs resolvedSuccessorPub, the key the host verified for it (successor_key_mismatch otherwise). receiveShare rejects a sender whose pin is retired with retired_pin.

After an accepted rotation, call applyAcceptedRotation. evaluateRotation only moves the pin; the friend record still names the old DID, so the peer would arrive as a stranger. Call applyAcceptedRotation({ store, pinStore, oldDid, newDid }) right after an accepted decision. It follows the retiredBy chain from oldDid, hop by hop, to the live pin (at most 16 hops, and a loop is refused with rotation_chain_invalid), so back-to-back rotations (A to B to C) do not strand the record. newDid may be any DID on that chain, and the record always moves to the live end: both apply(A, B) and apply(A, C) leave it on C. It moves the record's a2a-agent external id and DID and keeps trust, grant and profile, because a verified rotation is the same peer (this is not a reset). It also finds a record that was already moved part-way along the chain. If a record already exists at the live DID, the call returns successor_already_linked and leaves both records as they are; the operator resolves that (for example by merging them with link_identity). Call it right after the accepted decision, before that DID is used for anything else. The successor's consent is signed over a fixed context prefix (ourostack-friends/v1/key-successor-consent) plus the canonical JSON, so an envelope signature can never count as a consent. Other refusals are rotation_not_accepted (a hop is not a retired pin with an existing next pin, the end is not live, or newDid is not on the chain), record_not_found and successor_already_linked.

Signed binding. sealEnvelope also stamps a reserved, signed binding: { to, kind, id } into every envelope before signing: the recipient DID, the friends kind, and 128 random bits (base64url). Because it is signed, a recipient who opens a message cannot re-seal the same signed envelope to a third party, and a relabelled kind fails. receiveShare (and checkEnvelopeBinding, for hosts with their own receive path) rejects with signed_recipient_mismatch, signed_kind_mismatch, malformed_binding or replayed (same mid:<sender>:<id>). Every envelope must also be fresh: issuedAt (ISO-8601 with a zone) at most 7 days old, and an envelope carrying onBehalfOf at most 10 minutes old (stale_envelope / stale_delegation), with 2 minutes of clock skew allowed. An envelope with no binding (an older sender) is accepted with bound: false unless it is a delegated command (unbound_delegation) or the host sets rejectUnboundEnvelopes (unbound_envelope). A completed result carries the signed bindingId. checkEnvelopeBinding is check-only: a host with its own receive path must hold an in-memory claim across its own awaits, and mark the returned seenKey (and its blob key) in the ledger only after the signature verifies. receiveShare does this itself: a duplicate that hits an in-flight claim gets the retryable in_flight, one that hits the ledger gets replayed. A failure before the signature verifies (resolve failure, a throw, a forged blob) leaves the message redeliverable; once verified, the message is consumed even if the trust gate or the import then fails, and so is a message whose ledger write fails between the blob key and the mid: key. Invalid time options (non-finite now or windows) throw a TypeError rather than skip the check.

The friends relay (ourostack/friends-relay) is the friends-family communication layer for any agent using the friends library — a relay (agents with no reachable endpoint register; it forwards A2A messages) plus a directory (discovery). It is built and deployed as a separate component from this store-only library, and it is UNTRUSTED INFRASTRUCTURE by design: standard A2A is TLS-only and terminates at the server, so a plain A2A relay would read every payload. The friends overlay closes exactly that gap. The relay carries ciphertext and a routing handle and nothing else — it can never read, forge, tamper, re-target, replay-to-effect, or escalate. The only residual it has is the ability to deny, delay, or observe handle-level metadata.

That claim is not a promise — it is a proof. examples/cross-agent-a2a-relay.ts stands up a deliberately-malicious in-process relay and asserts all eight properties hold against real libsodium crypto:

npm run example:cross-agent-a2a-relay      # the malicious-relay proof: 8 hard assertions —
                                           #   ciphertext-only, can't-forge/tamper/re-target,
                                           #   replay-inert, moat-invariants, direct-equivalence,
                                           #   reachability ladder (direct → relay → mailbox → none)

Reachability is a deterministic ladder: a directly-reachable A2A endpoint first, else the relay, else the git-mailbox fallback (§2), else unreachable. The same sealed envelope rides every rung — the security never depends on which path it took.

3. Shared memory — the mission ledger

What two agents collectively learned doing work together.

A mission is named by a cross-agent missionKey (a ticket id, repo#PR, a slug two agents agree on out of band). A MissionRecord remembers the work: its status, participants, outcomes, and learnings. The same import discipline as the moat applies — first-party learnings are physically separated from importedLearnings accepted from a peer, and an imported learning can never masquerade as first-party.

4. Earned standing — advisory reputation, never on the wire

A read-only assessment of how a peer has actually performed on work you personally did with it.

standing is derived from your own first-party outcomes — a tier (proven / reliable / mixed / untested / troubled) computed on read, persisted nowhere. The bright line: trust decides, standing informs. Standing never auto-changes trust and never crosses the wire — there is no envelope field and no message type to express it, which is the anti-Sybil core (a collusion ring cannot vouch each other into your standing).

5. Coordination — negotiate who does the work

The five layers close the loop: agents can now negotiate who does a mission.

Five verbs — request / offer / accept / decline / handoff — ride one new transport kind over the same mailbox. The only persisted effect is one additive sub-object on the mission an agent already shares: its assignment (who currently holds it) plus an append-only log of every ask, bid, and answer. It is a single negotiated field, not a scheduler: a handoff never forces an assignee onto anyone (the receiver's own accept confirms it — non-transitive), assignment is advisory metadata rather than a granted capability, and conflicts resolve last-writer-wins by timestamp. No queue, no DAG, no workflow DSL.

The control-plane thread: the owner can link two of their own agents and have one delegate a task to the other, get it done, and receive the result back — over the same consent-gated, trust-capped, first-party-inviolable machinery.

connect_to is a first-class management-sense capability — the owner introduces a peer into an agent's fleet, but only from a trusted control surface: a local (owner-only) sense commits inline; an open sense never does (it downgrades to a confirm-prompt); a closed sense is gated by a signed account-roster membership check (same-account family via same_account), never a blanket allow. The link is recorded as an action:"connect" control-plane audit. A bare name with no resolvable handle is answered honestly (needs_handle_or_introduction) rather than invented.

Delegation then rides the layers already here: a task-spec travels on a coordination request (correlated by a minted requestId), and the result-return (send_result / import_result) carries the actual produced deliverable back — attributed to the doer, correlated to the original delegation, landing quarantined in a separate namespace on import. A result for work you never delegated is rejected (no_delegation); a stranger's result is refused at the trust cap; first-party knowledge is never touched. It is a deliverable channel, not a remote-exec grant.

The stack, in one line: agents recognize each other (1), reach each other (2), remember shared work (3), assess each other (4), negotiate who does what (5), and the owner links their own agents to delegate end-to-end (6) — each a minimal primitive on the last.


Quickstart

friends is consumed two ways. Use the library when you're writing code that owns the agent; use the MCP server when you want any MCP-speaking harness to call the same surface as tools.

Install

npm install @ouro.bot/friends

A) The library — the FriendStore seam + the core API

Two seams. You bring a store; you resolve through the resolver.

import { openFileBundle, FriendResolver, describeTrustContext } from "@ouro.bot/friends"

// 1. A store — where friend records live. openFileBundle persists one JSON file per
//    friend under the directory you give it (and wires the sibling _grants/ /
//    _missions/ collections). Or implement FriendStore yourself — see "Bring your
//    own storage".
const { store } = openFileBundle("/path/to/bundle/friends")

// 2. A resolver — turns an incoming external identity into a FriendRecord + the
//    capabilities of the channel it arrived on. Created per incoming message.
const { friend, channel } = await new FriendResolver(store, {
  provider: "aad",
  externalId: "aad-object-id",
  tenantId: "tenant-guid",
  displayName: "Jordan",
  channel: "teams",
}).resolve()

// 3. Gate behavior on trust.
const trust = describeTrustContext({ friend, channel: channel.channel })
//   → { level, basis: "direct" | "shared_group" | "unknown", permits, constraints, ... }

FriendStore is the injectable abstraction — no friend code touches fs directly except the FileFriendStore adapter — so you can back friends with anything (in-memory, a database, a remote service) by implementing the interface. The full public surface is listed under Public API.

B) The MCP server — friends-mcp

@ouro.bot/friends ships an MCP server that exposes the library as a tool surface for any MCP-speaking harness. The server runs no agent turn — it is a pure record read/write surface over the library, which is exactly what makes it harness-agnostic. Each tool call reads or writes friend records against a directory you point it at.

The store directory is the only coupling between the server and a bundle. Provide it with --dir <path> or the FRIENDS_DIR environment variable (the flag wins when both are set, and one of them is required — the server exits otherwise). It points at the bundle's friends/ directory — the same directory a FileFriendStore persists to.

A sample .mcp.json:

{
  "mcpServers": {
    "friends": {
      "command": "npx",
      "args": ["-y", "--package", "@ouro.bot/friends", "friends-mcp", "--dir", "<path-to-friends-dir>"]
    }
  }
}

For local development against a checkout, point at the built binary instead:

{
  "mcpServers": {
    "friends": {
      "command": "node",
      "args": ["<repo>/dist/mcp/bin.js", "--dir", "<path-to-friends-dir>"]
    }
  }
}

You can also npm pack then npx -y --package ./ouro.bot-friends-<version>.tgz friends-mcp --dir <path>, or npm link then friends-mcp --dir <path>. The server speaks JSON-RPC 2.0 over stdio with dual framing — Content-Length and newline-delimited JSON — auto-detected from the first message, so it works with harnesses on either convention.

The tool surface — 32 tools

A thin 1:1 mapping over the library (no domain logic in the server):

Tool

What it does

resolve_party

Resolve an external identity into a friend record (creating one on first contact); returns { friend, channel, created }.

describe_trust

Explain a friend's trust context (level, basis, permits, constraints).

get_friend

Fetch one friend record by uuid or name.

list_friends

List friends, optionally filtered by trust / kind and limited.

save_note

Save a friend's name, a tool preference, or a general note (with override).

record_interaction

Accumulate token usage and/or append a shared-mission outcome.

upsert_group

Link participants to a shared group, promoting strangers to acquaintances.

set_trust

Set a friend's trust level (mirrored onto role).

link_identity

Link an external identity, merging any orphan record that holds it.

unlink_identity

Remove an external identity from a friend.

onboard_agent

Upsert an agent-peer record from resolved coordinates (no HTTP fetch).

connect_to

Control plane — the owner links one of their OWN agents into the fleet (introduce a peer by agentId/did/name at a trust level, default family). Authority-gated to a management sense (local commits; an open sense downgrades to a confirm-prompt; closed is gated by a roster/membership check); a bare name with no resolvable handle/DID returns needs_handle_or_introduction (never fabricates). Writes an action:"connect" control-plane audit.

whoami

Resolve the machine owner and which record represents the self.

channel_caps

Return a channel's capabilities.

resolve_room

Resolve a room (a group's external id) into its members, each with trust context and knownVia.

share_profile

Producer — prepare a consent-gated, scope-filtered, provenance-preserving profile-share envelope for another agent.

import_profile

Consumer — import a profile-share envelope (non-clobbering merge into the imported namespace; never touches first-party notes or trust).

grant_share

Mint an explicit, revocable consent grant (an agent may receive a scope of a subject — a friend's profile or a mission).

revoke_share

Revoke a consent grant by id (tombstones it; the right-to-be-forgotten lever).

list_shares

List consent grants with their effective state (the audit + revoke surface).

record_mission

Upsert a shared mission by its missionKey — append first-party learnings / participants / outcomes, set status.

get_mission

Fetch one mission record by its local uuid id.

list_missions

List mission records, optionally limited.

share_mission

Producer — prepare a consent-gated, scope-filtered mission-share envelope (mission = shareable learnings; outcomes = the result rows).

import_mission

Consumer — import a mission-share envelope (non-clobbering merge into the imported namespace; never touches first-party learnings or status).

assess_standing

Assess a peer's earned standing from your first-party outcomes — a tier + basis count + tally. Advisory; never writes trust, never shared.

explain_standing

Explain a peer's earned standing in words (tier, why, advisory notes — never an instruction to change trust).

coordinate

Producer — prepare a coordination message (request / offer / accept / decline / handoff) that negotiates who does a mission.

import_coordination

Consumer — import a coordination message (appends to the mission's coordination log; only a self-accept sets the assignee; a handoff never forces one).

get_coordination

Read a mission's coordination state — its current assignee + the append-only negotiation log.

send_result

Producer — return B's DELIVERABLE for a delegation, attributed to B + correlated to A's task-spec by requestId, named by the mission's missionKey (consent-gated via the coordinate scope).

import_result

Consumer — import a result-return; lands B's deliverable quarantined + attributed under importedResults, trust-capped; a result whose requestId matches no prior first-party delegation is rejected (no_delegation); never recomputes status.

The consent tools (share_profile / import_profile / grant_share / revoke_share / list_shares) need a grant store; the mission, coordination, and result-return tools (send_result consumes both) need a mission store. The friends-mcp binary wires both automatically at sibling _grants/ and _missions/ directories under --dir (plus the _audit/ control-plane log connect_to / set_trust write through). An embedded server gets them by passing grants / missions / audit to createFriendsMcpServer. Without the relevant store, those tools report { ok: false, status: "unsupported" } and everything else works store-only.

The server module is consumed in code from the @ouro.bot/friends/mcp subpath, exporting createFriendsMcpServer, getToolSchemas, and runMain.


This is the differentiator. The whole package is built so that what you know stays yours, and what crosses between agents is deliberate, scoped, audited, and revocable.

The trust ladder

Level

Meaning

Grants

family

The machine owner and those closest.

Passes legacy trusted-relationship consent gates. Capabilities and initiative remain separately authorized.

friend

A directly-trusted relationship.

Passes legacy trusted-relationship consent gates. Capabilities and initiative remain separately authorized.

acquaintance

Known through a shared group context, not direct endorsement.

Group-safe coordination; guarded local actions.

stranger

Cold first contact.

Safe orientation only; no privileged actions.

family and friend are the trusted levels for legacy coarse consent checks (TRUSTED_LEVELS / isTrustedLevel). They do not independently grant tools, effects, or proactive sends. Those decisions belong to capabilityProfileId and initiativePolicy; admissionState must also be active. acquaintance and stranger remain outside the legacy trusted set.

Trust is assigned, not guessed:

  • First contact on a populated bundle starts at stranger.

  • The machine owner (the OS user running the agent) resolves to family — they own the agent and its bundle, so they are never a stranger.

  • A shared group (a group chat) promotes its participants from stranger to acquaintance — the agent now knows them through a context it trusts (upsertGroupContextParticipants).

Two different agents (different owners) can agree a party is the same person and share what they know about them — with consent. The package does the authorization (how much a verified peer's claims count, via the trust ladder); authentication of the wire is plugged in through an AgentVerifier (defaulting to trust-on-first-use, upgradable to DID/VC with no envelope change).

Consent itself is an explicit, auditable, revocable grant — grant_share / revoke_share / list_shares are the right-to-be-forgotten seam. The producer is gated by a ConsentPolicy, and three postures ship behind one swap point (DEFAULT_CONSENT_POLICY in src/consent.ts):

  • strictPolicy — consented only by a non-revoked, non-expired explicit grant.

  • trustImpliedPolicy — an explicit grant, or recipient trust ≥ friend (any scope).

  • tieredPolicy (default) — name and coordinate shares (display name only, no account ids) are consented on recipient trust ≥ friend; an identity share needs an explicit grant below family; any note-content scope requires an explicit grant. (Trust agrees on who; content still needs consent.)

A grant for notes:safe, notes:all or outcomes also discloses the subject's account ids (externalIds), because the receiver needs them to find the right record. Only the name and coordinate scopes withhold them.

Linking identities

linkExternalId merges a second record (the orphan) that already holds the id into the target. The target keeps its own trust, and a link never raises it. It refuses with conflict_requires_operator when the orphan has a capability profile, a grant, active or revoked admission, or a different trust level. It also refuses when the target holds authority (trust above stranger, active admission, a capability profile or a grant) and the orphan carries other external ids, because those ids would gain the target's authority.

The merge writes the target before deleting the orphan. If the delete fails, link the same id again: the retry finds the leftover orphan in the same tenant and finishes the merge. A store without listAll cannot do that, so the retry returns retry_unsupported instead of noop.

The safety invariants

Each is structurally enforced and tested — they are properties of the domain logic, not of any particular storage backend, so they hold even if you bring your own:

  • First-party is inviolable. Imported facts land in a separate namespace (importedNotes / importedLearnings, stamped origin: "imported" + assertedBy + importedAt). First-party notes / learnings are physically untouchable; first-party always wins.

  • Trust is non-transitive. An import never changes the party's trust level — the single most important invariant. A peer vouching for someone cannot promote them in your graph.

  • Source trust caps acceptance. A stranger source is refused; the floor is configurable. Seeding an unknown party (at acquaintance) requires a friend/family introducer.

  • No laundering. A first-party note shared onward is attributed to this agent; an imported note carries its originallyAssertedBy through, so an imported fact can never be re-shared as first-party.

  • Reputation stays home. standing is first-party-only, never writes trust, and never crosses the wire — there is no type to express it on a message (the anti-Sybil core).

  • Coordination grants no authority. A mission's assignee is advisory metadata; claiming a mission gives a peer no capability it didn't already have, and a handoff never forces an assignment onto a receiver (only their own accept sets it).

The load-bearing consequence: the security of the system does not depend on the security of the transport. A hostile mailbox can deny or replay, but never escalate.


Bring your own storage

friends never decides where or how your data lives. Where is the path / connection string you pass; how is a FriendStore / GrantStore / MissionStore implementation you choose or write. The core domain logic — resolver, trust, notes, consent, share, import, mission ledger, standing, coordination — is 100% persistence-agnostic: it only ever calls the store interfaces.

openFileBundle is the one-liner for the filesystem case, encapsulating the sibling collection conventions (the explicit construction stays available):

import { openFileBundle } from "@ouro.bot/friends"

const { store, grants, missions } = openFileBundle("/bundle/friends")
//   grants   → /bundle/friends/_grants
//   missions → /bundle/friends/_missions

The store seams as a contract

A third-party backend implements the store interfaces. Get these three behaviors right or cross-channel / cross-agent unification breaks:

  • findByExternalId(provider, externalId, tenantId?) — the cross-agent join-key lookup. A match requires provider + externalId and (tenantId undefined ⇒ any tenant, else an exact tenant match). This is how the same person is recognized across channels and how an import resolves its subject by join key.

  • get(id) — UUID-then-name fallback. Look up by UUID first; if not found, fall back to a case-insensitive name lookup as a human-facing convenience. Name lookup is never an identity claim or authorization boundary. A DB backend should index the UUID and MAY implement the name fallback.

  • Round-trip discipline (load-bearing). A backend MUST preserve the full FriendRecord losslessly — including importedNotes and future additive fields. Storing a lossy projection breaks the schemaVersion-1 guarantee for non-file backends. Prefer storing the whole record as a JSON blob keyed by id, with side indexes for lookups.

Sketch: a SQLite backend (illustrative — not shipped code)

The entire moat works unchanged over a database, because the domain only ever calls the FriendStore interface. Store the record as a JSON blob (lossless) with an index table for the join-key lookup:

// friends(id TEXT PRIMARY KEY, name TEXT, record TEXT /* JSON */)
// external_ids(provider TEXT, external_id TEXT, tenant_id TEXT, friend_id TEXT)
class SqliteFriendStore implements FriendStore {
  constructor(private readonly db: Database) {}

  async put(id: string, record: FriendRecord): Promise<void> {
    // Lossless: the WHOLE record as JSON — importedNotes + any additive field survive.
    this.db.run("INSERT OR REPLACE INTO friends (id, name, record) VALUES (?, ?, ?)",
      id, record.name, JSON.stringify(record))
    this.db.run("DELETE FROM external_ids WHERE friend_id = ?", id)
    for (const ext of record.externalIds) {
      this.db.run("INSERT INTO external_ids (provider, external_id, tenant_id, friend_id) VALUES (?, ?, ?, ?)",
        ext.provider, ext.externalId, ext.tenantId ?? null, id)
    }
  }

  async get(id: string): Promise<FriendRecord | null> {
    const byId = this.db.get("SELECT record FROM friends WHERE id = ?", id)
    if (byId) return JSON.parse(byId.record)
    // UUID-then-name fallback (case-insensitive).
    const byName = this.db.get("SELECT record FROM friends WHERE LOWER(name) = LOWER(?)", id)
    return byName ? JSON.parse(byName.record) : null
  }

  async findByExternalId(provider: string, externalId: string, tenantId?: string): Promise<FriendRecord | null> {
    const row = this.db.get(
      "SELECT friend_id FROM external_ids WHERE provider = ? AND external_id = ? AND (? IS NULL OR tenant_id = ?)",
      provider, externalId, tenantId ?? null, tenantId ?? null)
    return row ? this.get(row.friend_id) : null
  }
  // delete / listAll / hasAnyFriends follow the same id-keyed-blob shape.
}

GrantStore and MissionStore are the same shape — an id-keyed JSON blob. Swap any store in and every import-safety invariant still holds, because they are structural properties of the domain logic, not of the filesystem.


Examples — runnable, cross-agent proofs

Every guarantee above is demonstrated by a runnable script under examples/. Each spins up two separate stores (often two separate friends-mcp processes) — two different agents — exchanges real envelopes between them, and hard-asserts every invariant, printing a green transcript per step and exiting non-zero (with a loud banner) on any violation. They are git-free (the A2A demos exchange through a temp mailbox dir), so they reproduce anywhere with no network.

npm run example:cross-agent-moat            # identity join key + consent-gated profile share,
                                            #   first-party-inviolable, trust non-transitive
npm run example:mailbox-fallback            # the git-mailbox FALLBACK: path-binding, replay-safety,
                                            #   spoof rejection, hostile-mailbox tamper
npm run example:cross-agent-mission-memory  # the mission ledger: shareable vs private learnings,
                                            #   first-party-wins, status non-transitive
npm run example:cross-agent-standing        # earned standing: first-party-only, never-on-the-wire,
                                            #   inert on trust
npm run example:cross-agent-coordination    # the five coordination verbs end-to-end: assignment,
                                            #   non-transitive handoff, last-writer-wins, seeding gate
npm run example:cross-agent-delegation      # own-fleet delegation: two of the owner's agents,
                                            #   same-account family (signed roster), connect_to link,
                                            #   A delegates → B performs → B returns the result → A
                                            #   imports it — every invariant hard-asserted

Read them as the honest spec of what the package promises: if a guarantee weren't real, the matching example would exit 1.


Channels & observability

Each channel an agent speaks on (cli, teams, bluebubbles, mail, voice, a2a, inner, mcp) has fixed capabilities — its sense type (open / closed / local / internal), which integrations it exposes, and whether it supports markdown, streaming, and rich cards. Look them up with getChannelCapabilities. The sense type, combined with trust, is what decides whether a first-contact stranger reaches the full model on an open channel.

The package emits structured events through emitNervesEvent. By default these are dropped (no-op), so the package is fully self-contained. To forward them to your logging / observability pipeline, inject an emitter once at startup:

import { setNervesEmitter } from "@ouro.bot/friends"

setNervesEmitter((event) => {
  // forward `event` to your logging / observability pipeline
})

Design notes & status

  • Store-only, transport-agnostic, additive. The six layers were each built as a minimal primitive that does not modify the layers beneath it. The cross-agent envelopes are plain data; the wire is always the caller's job (the ./mailbox git-mailbox is one optional, host-driven fallback). A CI-enforced dependency rule keeps the core from ever importing the transport.

  • One persisted schema, additively grown. Records are schemaVersion: 1; every layer added optional fields and sibling collections rather than changing existing meaning, so older data reads clean.

  • Not a workflow engine. Each layer deliberately refuses the larger machine it brushes against: the mission ledger is not a knowledge base, standing is not a reputation engine, coordination is not a scheduler, and the delegation channel is a deliverable return — not a remote-exec grant. The discipline is the point.

  • Alpha. The surface is feature-complete across the six layers but pre-1.0 — expect additive changes, and pin a version. Feedback and issues are welcome.

Public API

Types: FriendRecord, FriendConnection, ExternalId, IdentityProvider, Integration, Channel, TrustLevel, AgentMeta, AgentAttribution, RelationshipOutcome, NoteProvenance, ImportedNote, ShareScope, ShareGrant, MissionKey, MissionLearning, ImportedLearning, MissionRecord, CoordinationIntent, CoordinationLogEntry, MissionCoordination, ChannelCapabilities, ResolvedContext, SenseType, Facing, TrustExplanation, TrustBasis, Standing, StandingTier, StandingTally, StandingExplanation, StandingRule, StandingRuleInput, FriendStore, GrantStore, MissionStore, FriendResolverParams, GroupContextParticipant, GroupContextUpsertResult, UsageData, FriendOpResult, FriendOpStatus, ApplyFriendNoteInput, WhoamiResult, RoomView, RoomMember, RoomKnownVia, ConsentPolicy, ConsentRecipient, ConsentDecisionInput, AgentVerifier, ProfileShareEnvelope, SharedNote, PrepareProfileShareInput, PrepareProfileShareResult, PrepareProfileShareStatus, ImportProfileShareInput, ImportProfileShareOptions, ImportProfileShareResult, ImportProfileShareStatus, GrantShareInput, RevokeShareResult, ListSharesFilter, ListedShare, FileBundle, NervesEvent, NervesEmitter, LogLevel, RecordMissionInput, MissionShareEnvelope, SharedLearning, PrepareMissionShareInput, PrepareMissionShareResult, PrepareMissionShareStatus, ImportMissionShareInput, ImportMissionShareOptions, ImportMissionShareResult, ImportMissionShareStatus, CoordinationEnvelope, PrepareCoordinationInput, PrepareCoordinationResult, PrepareCoordinationStatus, ImportCoordinationInput, ImportCoordinationOptions, ImportCoordinationResult, ImportCoordinationStatus, SetFriendTrustContext, AuditSink, ControlPlaneAuditRecord, ResolvedAgentIdentity, RosterStore, AccountRoster, RosterPin, RosterVerifier, AccountMembershipDecision, AccountMembershipResult, EvaluateAccountMembershipInput, FriendResolverRosterContext, ConnectPeer, ConnectAgentsInput, ConnectAgentsDeps, ConnectResult, ConnectStatus, AuthorizeConnectInput, ConnectAuthorization, MissionTaskSpec, MissionResult, MissionResultEnvelope, PrepareMissionResultInput, PrepareMissionResultResult, PrepareMissionResultStatus, ImportMissionResultInput, ImportMissionResultOptions, ImportMissionResultResult, ImportMissionResultStatus. (TrustBasis additively gains the "same_account" member — the basis for family granted via the signed account roster — and AgentMeta additively gains an optional identity { did, pinnedKey?, handle?, pinnedAt? } durable-identity home; both are schemaVersion-1 additive, and a legacy a2a.did migrates-on-read into identity.did. MissionRecord additively gains the own-fleet delegation namespaces delegations / importedDelegations (gap-1) and results / importedResults (gap-2), and ControlPlaneAuditRecord.action widens additively to "set_trust" | "connect".)

Values: TRUSTED_LEVELS, IDENTITY_SCOPES, isTrustedLevel, isIdentityProvider, isIntegration, isShareScope, isCoordinationIntent, FileFriendStore, FileGrantStore, grantsDirFor, FileMissionStore, missionsDirFor, openFileBundle, FriendResolver, machineOwnerUsername, isLocalMachineOwnerIdentity, getChannelCapabilities, channelToFacing, isRemoteChannel, getAlwaysOnSenseNames, describeTrustContext, assessStanding, explainStanding, DEFAULT_STANDING_RULE, upsertGroupContextParticipants, accumulateFriendTokens, applyFriendNote, setFriendTrust, linkExternalId, unlinkExternalId, upsertAgentPeer, recordRelationshipOutcome, recordMission, whoami, resolveRoom, strictPolicy, trustImpliedPolicy, tieredPolicy, DEFAULT_CONSENT_POLICY, tofuVerifier, DEFAULT_AGENT_VERIFIER, prepareProfileShare, importProfileShare, prepareMissionShare, importMissionShare, prepareCoordination, importCoordination, grantShare, revokeShare, listShares, isGrantEffective, setNervesEmitter, emitNervesEvent, resolveAgentIdentity, withMigratedIdentity, findFriendByDid, MemoryAuditSink, FileAuditSink, auditPathFor, FileRosterStore, rostersDirFor, MemoryRosterStore, identityRosterVerifier, DEFAULT_ROSTER_VERIFIER, evaluateAccountMembership, connectAgents, authorizeConnect, prepareMissionResult, importMissionResult.

Delegation grants: checkPinnedDelegationGrant and the PinnedDelegationGrant type are for hosts that keep delegated-command grants in their own trusted store; the friend-record DelegationGrant is deprecated and never authority.

From @ouro.bot/friends/mcp: createFriendsMcpServer, getToolSchemas, runMain (plus the McpToolSchema, FriendsMcpServer, and RunMainIo types).

From @ouro.bot/friends/mailbox: buildOutgoing, readIncoming, markSeen, isSeen, compareReady, MAILBOX_VERSION (plus the MailboxMessage, BuildOutgoingInput, BuildOutgoingResult, IncomingFile, IncomingMessage, ReadIncomingInput, ReadIncomingResult, RejectedMessage, SeenLedger types).

From @ouro.bot/friends/a2a-client (the real-A2A adapter + the E2E overlay): sendShare, receiveShare, resolveReachability; sealEnvelope / openSealedEnvelope; wrapInDataPart / unwrapDataPart; buildFriendsAgentCard; DidVerifier, evaluateRotation, signSuccessor, verifyCardDidBinding, pinOnFirstContact / isPinned / getPinned, MemoryPinStore; the identity helpers parseDidKey / keyAgreementFromDidKey / didKeyIdentityFromEd25519 / ed25519PubToDidKey and didWebToUrl / resolveDidWeb / parseDidDocument; the primitives checkEnvelopeBinding (with the rejectUnboundEnvelopes option on receiveShare), sealTo / openSealed, signEnvelope / verifyEnvelopeSignature, jcsString / jcsBytes, and the ready init seam; and the account-roster Ed25519 verify ed25519RosterVerifier / signRoster (the crypto implementation of the core RosterVerifier seam — host-injected, so the core stays transport-free) (plus the A2ATransport, DidResolution, SealedEnvelope, StructuredProof, ReachabilityPlan, FriendsAgentCard, DidKeyIdentity, DidDocument types). The transports (direct A2A / relay / git op) are injected by the host — this module does no network or git itself.

License

Apache-2.0

Available Tools

14 tools
channel_capsB

Return the capabilities of a channel (integrations, markdown, streaming, rich cards, max length).

Inputs: channel (required).

describe_trustA

Explain the trust context for a friend: level, basis (direct/shared_group/unknown), what it permits and constrains.

Inputs: friendId (required), channel (required), isGroupChat.

get_friendA

Fetch a single friend record by uuid or by name.

Inputs: friendId (required).

list_friendsB

List friend records, optionally filtered by trust level and kind, optionally limited.

Inputs: trust, kind, limit.

onboard_agentA

Upsert an agent-peer friend record from already-resolved coordinates (no HTTP card fetch).

Inputs: name (required), agentId (required), trustLevel, a2a, +1 more.

record_interactionB

Record a turn with a friend: accumulate token usage and/or append a shared-mission outcome (bumping familiarity).

Inputs: friendId (required), usage, outcome, familiarityDelta, +1 more.

resolve_partyA

Resolve an external identity (provider + externalId on a channel) into a friend record, creating one on first contact. Returns { friend, channel, created }.

Inputs: provider (required), externalId (required), displayName, channel, +1 more.

save_noteB

Save a friend's name, a tool preference, or a general note. Use override='true' to overwrite an existing value.

Inputs: friendId (required), type (required), content (required), key, +2 more.

set_trustB

Set a friend's trust level (also mirrors it onto the record's role).

Inputs: friendId (required), trustLevel (required).

share_profileA

Reserved (P1): share a friend's profile with another agent. Returns { supported: false } until federation lands.

Inputs: friendId, toAgentId, scope.

upsert_groupB

Upsert shared-group participant context: link each participant to the group, promoting strangers to acquaintances.

Inputs: groupExternalId (required), participants (required).

whoamiB

Resolve who the machine owner is and which friend record represents the self.

Inputs: no named parameters.

Tool Schema Changelog

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    TDQS

    A3.5/5.0

    Scored across 14 tools

    Disambiguation5/5

    Each tool has a clearly distinct purpose: channel capabilities, trust description, friend retrieval, identity linking, listing, onboarding, interaction recording, resolution, note saving, trust setting, profile sharing (reserved), unlink, group upsert, and self-identification. No two tools overlap in functionality.

    Naming Consistency4/5

    Most tools follow a consistent verb_noun pattern (e.g., get_friend, set_trust), but channel_caps and whoami deviate slightly. Despite these minor exceptions, the naming is clear and predictable overall.

    Tool Count5/5

    14 tools is well-scoped for a friends management server covering identity linking, trust, groups, notes, and interactions. Each tool addresses a specific need without unnecessary redundancy or bloat.

    Completeness4/5

    The surface covers core friend lifecycle, trust, identity linking, and group management. Minor gaps exist: no explicit delete/archive friend, no group retrieval beyond upsert, and no interaction querying. However, save_note can update friend names, and the set of tools is adequate for most agent workflows.

    Maintenance

    ActivityMaintained
    ResponsivenessNo recent community issues

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