friends-mcp
The friends-mcp server is a friend/identity relationship management system for AI agents — a read/write surface for tracking who an agent knows, managing trust levels, and coordinating cross-channel identities.
Identity & Friend Record Management
resolve_party— Resolve an external identity (AAD, Teams, iMessage, etc.) into a friend record, creating one on first contactget_friend— Fetch a single friend record by UUID or namelist_friends— List friends, optionally filtered by trust level (family/friend/acquaintance/stranger) and kind (human/agent)link_identity— Link an external identity to an existing friend, merging orphan/duplicate records for cross-channel unificationunlink_identity— Remove an external identity from a friend record
Trust Management
describe_trust— Explain a friend's trust context: level, basis (direct/shared_group/unknown), permitted actions, and constraintsset_trust— Assign a trust level (family, friend, acquaintance, stranger), mirrored to role
Notes & Interactions
save_note— Save a friend's name, tool preference, or general note, with optional override and provenancerecord_interaction— Log token usage or shared-mission outcomes to accumulate familiarity
Group & Multi-Party Context
upsert_group— Link participants to a shared group, automatically promoting strangers to acquaintancesresolve_room— Resolve a room into its members, each with trust context and how they are known
Agent-to-Agent (A2A)
onboard_agent— Upsert an agent-peer friend record from resolved coordinates, with optional A2A endpoint details and trust level
Self & Channel Introspection
whoami— Identify the machine owner and which friend record represents the agent itselfchannel_caps— Return a channel's capabilities (integrations, markdown, streaming, rich cards, max message length)
Profile Sharing
share_profile— Currently reserved; returns{ supported: false }pending cross-agent federation implementation
Click on "Deploy Server".
Wait a few minutes for the server to deploy. Once ready, it will show a "Started" state.
In the chat, type
@followed by the MCP server name and your instructions, e.g., "@friends-mcp Set trust level for user john@example.com to friend"
That's it! The server will respond to your query, and you can continue using it as needed.
Here is a step-by-step guide with screenshots.
@ouro.bot/friends
An open identity, relationship, and multiplayer substrate for AI agents. Who am I, who are you, who else is in the room — for any harness, any agent.
· store-only · transport-agnostic · no daemon · alpha
"It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important. […] People have forgotten this truth," said the fox. "But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed." — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince
An agent meets the same people over and over — across a CLI, a chat thread, an email, a voice
call — and it meets other agents. friends is where it keeps track of who it knows: a single
merged identity per person (who they are across every channel), the notes it has written about
them, and where each relationship sits on a trust ladder. A stranger is just another voice
until ties are established; establishing those ties — taming, in the book's word — is what moves
someone from stranger to acquaintance to friend to family, and what makes the agent
behave differently toward them.
What friends is
friends is a library + an MCP server that gives an agent a who's-who. It is deliberately
narrow:
Store-only. Every tool reads or writes records. There is no agent turn, no LLM call, no session — which is exactly what makes it harness-agnostic. The same package serves Claude Code, Codex, a Copilot CLI, or anything else that can call a function or speak MCP.
Transport-agnostic. When two agents need to exchange something,
friendsproduces and consumes a plain envelope; the wire between them is the caller's job. An optional git-mailbox transport ships alongside, but the core never opens a socket.No daemon. Nothing to run in the background. Point it at a directory and call it.
Bring your own storage. The library never decides where or how your data lives — you pass a path (or a connection string) and, if you want, your own storage backend.
It is built as six additive capability layers. Each is a minimal primitive on the one before it; none is a workflow engine; removing any layer leaves the ones beneath it unchanged.
Related MCP server: openfuse-mcp
What it does — the six capabilities
1. Identity + the cross-agent moat
The foundation: recognize a person across every channel, and decide how much to trust them.
Every person or peer the agent meets becomes a FriendRecord — one merged identity that collapses
all of someone's channel handles together, keyed by a join key (provider:externalId, never a
local UUID). The same person reached on a CLI today and a chat thread tomorrow resolves to the
same record.
Relationships sit on a four-rung trust ladder (family / friend / acquaintance /
stranger), and the agent's behavior is gated by where someone sits on it. Two agents that have
never shared a database can agree a party is the same person and share what they know about
them — with consent, and without first-party knowledge ever being clobbered. First-party
knowledge is structurally inviolable and trust is non-transitive: an import can add an
attributed, quarantined note, but it can never change who you trust. (See
Trust & consent model.)
2. Connectivity — the git-backed mailbox fallback
How two agents actually reach each other, without a server in the middle. (This git-mailbox is the
demoted offline/no-endpoint fallback — real A2A + the friends E2E overlay is the primary path;
see @ouro.bot/friends/a2a-client.)
The optional @ouro.bot/friends/mailbox sub-export is a pure git-mailbox transport: zero runtime
dependencies, and it does no git or network itself. The host does every git op (clone / pull /
add / commit / push); the library only computes a message file's path + bytes and
parses / validates / orders / dedups the files the host hands back. Two agents authenticate as
two distinct git identities sharing a private mailbox repo; each agent is the single writer of its
own outbox.
The mailbox is treated as untrusted infrastructure: a hostile mailbox can only deny or replay — never escalate — because an import never touches first-party notes or trust.
2b. The primary transport — real A2A + an end-to-end security overlay
The @ouro.bot/friends/a2a-client sub-export is the host-side adapter that makes friends agents
speak the real A2A (Agent2Agent) standard — message/send, agent cards at a well-known URL, a
single structured DataPart per envelope — and adds the end-to-end security overlay that keeps
the wire safe even when a relay sits in the middle. It is the only part of the package that has a
runtime dependency (libsodium-wrappers); the core stays zero-dep and transport-agnostic.
A friends exchange is one A2A message whose DataPart carries a sealed envelope. Before it ever hits the wire, the envelope is:
signed by the sender — Ed25519 over the RFC 8785 JCS canonical bytes, carried in the envelope's reserved
proofslot; andsealed to the recipient — XChaCha20-Poly1305 AEAD over an ephemeral X25519 ECDH key, with the recipient's DID bound into the AEAD associated-data so a blob cannot be re-targeted.
The signature lives inside the ciphertext (sign-then-seal), so a relay never even learns who
signed. Cryptographic identity is did:key (zero-infra — the agent's DID is its Ed25519 key,
and the X25519 keyAgreement key is derived from it) or did:web (resolved behind an injectable
hook). Identity is agentId === did, pinned trust-on-first-use, with trust-tiered key rotation
(a family/friend peer may present a signed successor proof; acquaintances/strangers re-confirm out
of band).
A rotation needs both keys. The OLD key signs the successor statement (rotationProof, from signSuccessor), and the NEW key signs its own consent (successorProof, from signSuccessorConsent), which covers the old DID, the new DID, the new key and issuedAt. Without the second signature a peer could name any real DID and public key as its successor. signFullSuccessor builds both from the two keys. evaluateRotation verifies both before it writes anything and rejects with missing_successor_proof or bad_successor_proof. The successor DID must also belong to the successor key: a did:key must encode the presented key, and every rotation of a non-did:key DID, a same-DID key change included, needs resolvedSuccessorPub, the key the host verified for it (successor_key_mismatch otherwise). receiveShare rejects a sender whose pin is retired with retired_pin.
After an accepted rotation, call applyAcceptedRotation. evaluateRotation only moves the pin; the friend record still names the old DID, so the peer would arrive as a stranger. Call applyAcceptedRotation({ store, pinStore, oldDid, newDid }) right after an accepted decision. It follows the retiredBy chain from oldDid, hop by hop, to the live pin (at most 16 hops, and a loop is refused with rotation_chain_invalid), so back-to-back rotations (A to B to C) do not strand the record. newDid may be any DID on that chain, and the record always moves to the live end: both apply(A, B) and apply(A, C) leave it on C. It moves the record's a2a-agent external id and DID and keeps trust, grant and profile, because a verified rotation is the same peer (this is not a reset). It also finds a record that was already moved part-way along the chain. If a record already exists at the live DID, the call returns successor_already_linked and leaves both records as they are; the operator resolves that (for example by merging them with link_identity). Call it right after the accepted decision, before that DID is used for anything else. The successor's consent is signed over a fixed context prefix (ourostack-friends/v1/key-successor-consent) plus the canonical JSON, so an envelope signature can never count as a consent. Other refusals are rotation_not_accepted (a hop is not a retired pin with an existing next pin, the end is not live, or newDid is not on the chain), record_not_found and successor_already_linked.
Signed binding. sealEnvelope also stamps a reserved, signed binding: { to, kind, id } into
every envelope before signing: the recipient DID, the friends kind, and 128 random bits (base64url).
Because it is signed, a recipient who opens a message cannot re-seal the same signed envelope to a
third party, and a relabelled kind fails. receiveShare (and checkEnvelopeBinding, for hosts with
their own receive path) rejects with signed_recipient_mismatch, signed_kind_mismatch,
malformed_binding or replayed (same mid:<sender>:<id>). Every envelope must also be fresh:
issuedAt (ISO-8601 with a zone) at most 7 days old, and an envelope carrying onBehalfOf at most
10 minutes old (stale_envelope / stale_delegation), with 2 minutes of clock skew allowed. An
envelope with no binding (an older sender) is accepted with bound: false unless it is a
delegated command (unbound_delegation) or the host sets rejectUnboundEnvelopes (unbound_envelope).
A completed result carries the signed bindingId. checkEnvelopeBinding is check-only: a host
with its own receive path must hold an in-memory claim across its own awaits, and mark the returned
seenKey (and its blob key) in the ledger only after the signature verifies. receiveShare does
this itself: a duplicate that hits an in-flight claim gets the retryable in_flight, one that hits
the ledger gets replayed. A failure before the signature verifies (resolve failure, a throw, a
forged blob) leaves the message redeliverable; once verified, the message is consumed even if the
trust gate or the import then fails, and so is a message whose ledger write fails between the blob
key and the mid: key. Invalid time options (non-finite now or windows)
throw a TypeError rather than skip the check.
The friends relay (ourostack/friends-relay) is the friends-family communication layer for any
agent using the friends library — a relay (agents with no reachable endpoint register; it forwards
A2A messages) plus a directory (discovery). It is built and deployed as a separate component from
this store-only library, and it is UNTRUSTED INFRASTRUCTURE by design: standard A2A is TLS-only
and terminates at the server, so a plain A2A relay would read every payload. The friends overlay
closes exactly that gap. The relay carries ciphertext and a routing handle and nothing else — it
can never read, forge, tamper, re-target, replay-to-effect, or escalate. The
only residual it has is the ability to deny, delay, or observe handle-level metadata.
That claim is not a promise — it is a proof. examples/cross-agent-a2a-relay.ts stands up a
deliberately-malicious in-process relay and asserts all eight properties hold against real
libsodium crypto:
npm run example:cross-agent-a2a-relay # the malicious-relay proof: 8 hard assertions —
# ciphertext-only, can't-forge/tamper/re-target,
# replay-inert, moat-invariants, direct-equivalence,
# reachability ladder (direct → relay → mailbox → none)Reachability is a deterministic ladder: a directly-reachable A2A endpoint first, else the relay, else the git-mailbox fallback (§2), else unreachable. The same sealed envelope rides every rung — the security never depends on which path it took.
3. Shared memory — the mission ledger
What two agents collectively learned doing work together.
A mission is named by a cross-agent missionKey (a ticket id, repo#PR, a slug two agents
agree on out of band). A MissionRecord remembers the work: its status, participants, outcomes,
and learnings. The same import discipline as the moat applies — first-party learnings are
physically separated from importedLearnings accepted from a peer, and an imported learning can
never masquerade as first-party.
4. Earned standing — advisory reputation, never on the wire
A read-only assessment of how a peer has actually performed on work you personally did with it.
standing is derived from your own first-party outcomes — a tier
(proven / reliable / mixed / untested / troubled) computed on read, persisted nowhere.
The bright line: trust decides, standing informs. Standing never auto-changes trust and
never crosses the wire — there is no envelope field and no message type to express it, which is
the anti-Sybil core (a collusion ring cannot vouch each other into your standing).
5. Coordination — negotiate who does the work
The five layers close the loop: agents can now negotiate who does a mission.
Five verbs — request / offer / accept / decline / handoff — ride one new transport kind
over the same mailbox. The only persisted effect is one additive sub-object on the mission an
agent already shares: its assignment (who currently holds it) plus an append-only log of every
ask, bid, and answer. It is a single negotiated field, not a scheduler: a handoff never forces
an assignee onto anyone (the receiver's own accept confirms it — non-transitive), assignment is
advisory metadata rather than a granted capability, and conflicts resolve last-writer-wins by
timestamp. No queue, no DAG, no workflow DSL.
6. Own-fleet delegation — link your own agents, then delegate work end-to-end
The control-plane thread: the owner can link two of their own agents and have one delegate a task to the other, get it done, and receive the result back — over the same consent-gated, trust-capped, first-party-inviolable machinery.
connect_to is a first-class management-sense capability — the owner introduces a peer into an
agent's fleet, but only from a trusted control surface: a local (owner-only) sense commits
inline; an open sense never does (it downgrades to a confirm-prompt); a closed sense is gated by
a signed account-roster membership check (same-account family via same_account), never a
blanket allow. The link is recorded as an action:"connect" control-plane audit. A bare name with
no resolvable handle is answered honestly (needs_handle_or_introduction) rather than invented.
Delegation then rides the layers already here: a task-spec travels on a coordination request
(correlated by a minted requestId), and the result-return (send_result / import_result)
carries the actual produced deliverable back — attributed to the doer, correlated to the original
delegation, landing quarantined in a separate namespace on import. A result for work you never
delegated is rejected (no_delegation); a stranger's result is refused at the trust cap; first-party
knowledge is never touched. It is a deliverable channel, not a remote-exec grant.
The stack, in one line: agents recognize each other (1), reach each other (2), remember shared work (3), assess each other (4), negotiate who does what (5), and the owner links their own agents to delegate end-to-end (6) — each a minimal primitive on the last.
Quickstart
friends is consumed two ways. Use the library when you're writing code that owns the agent;
use the MCP server when you want any MCP-speaking harness to call the same surface as tools.
Install
npm install @ouro.bot/friendsA) The library — the FriendStore seam + the core API
Two seams. You bring a store; you resolve through the resolver.
import { openFileBundle, FriendResolver, describeTrustContext } from "@ouro.bot/friends"
// 1. A store — where friend records live. openFileBundle persists one JSON file per
// friend under the directory you give it (and wires the sibling _grants/ /
// _missions/ collections). Or implement FriendStore yourself — see "Bring your
// own storage".
const { store } = openFileBundle("/path/to/bundle/friends")
// 2. A resolver — turns an incoming external identity into a FriendRecord + the
// capabilities of the channel it arrived on. Created per incoming message.
const { friend, channel } = await new FriendResolver(store, {
provider: "aad",
externalId: "aad-object-id",
tenantId: "tenant-guid",
displayName: "Jordan",
channel: "teams",
}).resolve()
// 3. Gate behavior on trust.
const trust = describeTrustContext({ friend, channel: channel.channel })
// → { level, basis: "direct" | "shared_group" | "unknown", permits, constraints, ... }FriendStore is the injectable abstraction — no friend code touches fs directly except the
FileFriendStore adapter — so you can back friends with anything (in-memory, a database, a remote
service) by implementing the interface. The full public surface is listed under
Public API.
B) The MCP server — friends-mcp
@ouro.bot/friends ships an MCP server that exposes the library as a tool surface for any
MCP-speaking harness. The server runs no agent turn — it is a pure record read/write surface over
the library, which is exactly what makes it harness-agnostic. Each tool call reads or writes
friend records against a directory you point it at.
The store directory is the only coupling between the server and a bundle. Provide it with
--dir <path> or the FRIENDS_DIR environment variable (the flag wins when both are set, and
one of them is required — the server exits otherwise). It points at the bundle's friends/
directory — the same directory a FileFriendStore persists to.
A sample .mcp.json:
{
"mcpServers": {
"friends": {
"command": "npx",
"args": ["-y", "--package", "@ouro.bot/friends", "friends-mcp", "--dir", "<path-to-friends-dir>"]
}
}
}For local development against a checkout, point at the built binary instead:
{
"mcpServers": {
"friends": {
"command": "node",
"args": ["<repo>/dist/mcp/bin.js", "--dir", "<path-to-friends-dir>"]
}
}
}You can also npm pack then
npx -y --package ./ouro.bot-friends-<version>.tgz friends-mcp --dir <path>, or npm link then
friends-mcp --dir <path>. The server speaks JSON-RPC 2.0 over stdio with dual framing —
Content-Length and newline-delimited JSON — auto-detected from the first message, so it works with
harnesses on either convention.
The tool surface — 32 tools
A thin 1:1 mapping over the library (no domain logic in the server):
Tool | What it does |
| Resolve an external identity into a friend record (creating one on first contact); returns |
| Explain a friend's trust context (level, basis, permits, constraints). |
| Fetch one friend record by uuid or name. |
| List friends, optionally filtered by trust / kind and limited. |
| Save a friend's name, a tool preference, or a general note (with |
| Accumulate token usage and/or append a shared-mission outcome. |
| Link participants to a shared group, promoting strangers to acquaintances. |
| Set a friend's trust level (mirrored onto |
| Link an external identity, merging any orphan record that holds it. |
| Remove an external identity from a friend. |
| Upsert an agent-peer record from resolved coordinates (no HTTP fetch). |
| Control plane — the owner links one of their OWN agents into the fleet (introduce a peer by agentId/did/name at a trust level, default |
| Resolve the machine owner and which record represents the self. |
| Return a channel's capabilities. |
| Resolve a room (a group's external id) into its members, each with trust context and |
| Producer — prepare a consent-gated, scope-filtered, provenance-preserving profile-share envelope for another agent. |
| Consumer — import a profile-share envelope (non-clobbering merge into the imported namespace; never touches first-party notes or trust). |
| Mint an explicit, revocable consent grant (an agent may receive a scope of a subject — a friend's profile or a mission). |
| Revoke a consent grant by id (tombstones it; the right-to-be-forgotten lever). |
| List consent grants with their effective state (the audit + revoke surface). |
| Upsert a shared mission by its |
| Fetch one mission record by its local uuid id. |
| List mission records, optionally limited. |
| Producer — prepare a consent-gated, scope-filtered mission-share envelope ( |
| Consumer — import a mission-share envelope (non-clobbering merge into the imported namespace; never touches first-party learnings or status). |
| Assess a peer's earned standing from your first-party outcomes — a tier + basis count + tally. Advisory; never writes trust, never shared. |
| Explain a peer's earned standing in words (tier, why, advisory notes — never an instruction to change trust). |
| Producer — prepare a coordination message ( |
| Consumer — import a coordination message (appends to the mission's coordination log; only a self- |
| Read a mission's coordination state — its current assignee + the append-only negotiation log. |
| Producer — return B's DELIVERABLE for a delegation, attributed to B + correlated to A's task-spec by |
| Consumer — import a result-return; lands B's deliverable quarantined + attributed under |
The consent tools (share_profile / import_profile / grant_share / revoke_share /
list_shares) need a grant store; the mission, coordination, and result-return tools
(send_result consumes both) need a mission store. The friends-mcp binary wires both
automatically at sibling _grants/ and _missions/ directories under --dir (plus the
_audit/ control-plane log connect_to / set_trust write through). An embedded server gets
them by passing grants / missions / audit to createFriendsMcpServer. Without the
relevant store, those tools report { ok: false, status: "unsupported" } and everything else
works store-only.
The server module is consumed in code from the @ouro.bot/friends/mcp subpath, exporting
createFriendsMcpServer, getToolSchemas, and runMain.
Trust & consent model
This is the differentiator. The whole package is built so that what you know stays yours, and what crosses between agents is deliberate, scoped, audited, and revocable.
The trust ladder
Level | Meaning | Grants |
| The machine owner and those closest. | Passes legacy trusted-relationship consent gates. Capabilities and initiative remain separately authorized. |
| A directly-trusted relationship. | Passes legacy trusted-relationship consent gates. Capabilities and initiative remain separately authorized. |
| Known through a shared group context, not direct endorsement. | Group-safe coordination; guarded local actions. |
| Cold first contact. | Safe orientation only; no privileged actions. |
family and friend are the trusted levels for legacy coarse consent checks (TRUSTED_LEVELS / isTrustedLevel). They do not independently grant tools, effects, or proactive sends. Those decisions belong to capabilityProfileId and initiativePolicy; admissionState must also be active. acquaintance and stranger remain outside the legacy trusted set.
Trust is assigned, not guessed:
First contact on a populated bundle starts at
stranger.The machine owner (the OS user running the agent) resolves to
family— they own the agent and its bundle, so they are never a stranger.A shared group (a group chat) promotes its participants from
strangertoacquaintance— the agent now knows them through a context it trusts (upsertGroupContextParticipants).
Consent-gated sharing
Two different agents (different owners) can agree a party is the same person and share what
they know about them — with consent. The package does the authorization (how much a verified
peer's claims count, via the trust ladder); authentication of the wire is plugged in through an
AgentVerifier (defaulting to trust-on-first-use, upgradable to DID/VC with no envelope change).
Consent itself is an explicit, auditable, revocable grant — grant_share / revoke_share /
list_shares are the right-to-be-forgotten seam. The producer is gated by a ConsentPolicy, and
three postures ship behind one swap point (DEFAULT_CONSENT_POLICY in src/consent.ts):
strictPolicy— consented only by a non-revoked, non-expired explicit grant.trustImpliedPolicy— an explicit grant, or recipient trust ≥friend(any scope).tieredPolicy(default) —nameandcoordinateshares (display name only, no account ids) are consented on recipient trust ≥friend; anidentityshare needs an explicit grant belowfamily; any note-content scope requires an explicit grant. (Trust agrees on who; content still needs consent.)
A grant for notes:safe, notes:all or outcomes also discloses the subject's account ids
(externalIds), because the receiver needs them to find the right record. Only the name and
coordinate scopes withhold them.
Linking identities
linkExternalId merges a second record (the orphan) that already holds the id into the target. The target keeps its own trust, and a link never raises it. It refuses with conflict_requires_operator when the orphan has a capability profile, a grant, active or revoked admission, or a different trust level. It also refuses when the target holds authority (trust above stranger, active admission, a capability profile or a grant) and the orphan carries other external ids, because those ids would gain the target's authority.
The merge writes the target before deleting the orphan. If the delete fails, link the same id again: the retry finds the leftover orphan in the same tenant and finishes the merge. A store without listAll cannot do that, so the retry returns retry_unsupported instead of noop.
The safety invariants
Each is structurally enforced and tested — they are properties of the domain logic, not of any particular storage backend, so they hold even if you bring your own:
First-party is inviolable. Imported facts land in a separate namespace (
importedNotes/importedLearnings, stampedorigin: "imported"+assertedBy+importedAt). First-partynotes/learningsare physically untouchable; first-party always wins.Trust is non-transitive. An import never changes the party's trust level — the single most important invariant. A peer vouching for someone cannot promote them in your graph.
Source trust caps acceptance. A
strangersource is refused; the floor is configurable. Seeding an unknown party (atacquaintance) requires afriend/familyintroducer.No laundering. A first-party note shared onward is attributed to this agent; an imported note carries its
originallyAssertedBythrough, so an imported fact can never be re-shared as first-party.Reputation stays home.
standingis first-party-only, never writes trust, and never crosses the wire — there is no type to express it on a message (the anti-Sybil core).Coordination grants no authority. A mission's
assigneeis advisory metadata; claiming a mission gives a peer no capability it didn't already have, and ahandoffnever forces an assignment onto a receiver (only their ownacceptsets it).
The load-bearing consequence: the security of the system does not depend on the security of the transport. A hostile mailbox can deny or replay, but never escalate.
Bring your own storage
friends never decides where or how your data lives. Where is the path / connection string
you pass; how is a FriendStore / GrantStore / MissionStore implementation you choose or write.
The core domain logic — resolver, trust, notes, consent, share, import, mission ledger, standing,
coordination — is 100% persistence-agnostic: it only ever calls the store interfaces.
openFileBundle is the one-liner for the filesystem case, encapsulating the sibling collection
conventions (the explicit construction stays available):
import { openFileBundle } from "@ouro.bot/friends"
const { store, grants, missions } = openFileBundle("/bundle/friends")
// grants → /bundle/friends/_grants
// missions → /bundle/friends/_missionsThe store seams as a contract
A third-party backend implements the store interfaces. Get these three behaviors right or cross-channel / cross-agent unification breaks:
findByExternalId(provider, externalId, tenantId?)— the cross-agent join-key lookup. A match requiresprovider+externalIdand (tenantIdundefined ⇒ any tenant, else an exact tenant match). This is how the same person is recognized across channels and how an import resolves its subject by join key.get(id)— UUID-then-name fallback. Look up by UUID first; if not found, fall back to a case-insensitive name lookup as a human-facing convenience. Name lookup is never an identity claim or authorization boundary. A DB backend should index the UUID and MAY implement the name fallback.Round-trip discipline (load-bearing). A backend MUST preserve the full
FriendRecordlosslessly — includingimportedNotesand future additive fields. Storing a lossy projection breaks the schemaVersion-1 guarantee for non-file backends. Prefer storing the whole record as a JSON blob keyed by id, with side indexes for lookups.
Sketch: a SQLite backend (illustrative — not shipped code)
The entire moat works unchanged over a database, because the domain only ever calls the
FriendStore interface. Store the record as a JSON blob (lossless) with an index table for the
join-key lookup:
// friends(id TEXT PRIMARY KEY, name TEXT, record TEXT /* JSON */)
// external_ids(provider TEXT, external_id TEXT, tenant_id TEXT, friend_id TEXT)
class SqliteFriendStore implements FriendStore {
constructor(private readonly db: Database) {}
async put(id: string, record: FriendRecord): Promise<void> {
// Lossless: the WHOLE record as JSON — importedNotes + any additive field survive.
this.db.run("INSERT OR REPLACE INTO friends (id, name, record) VALUES (?, ?, ?)",
id, record.name, JSON.stringify(record))
this.db.run("DELETE FROM external_ids WHERE friend_id = ?", id)
for (const ext of record.externalIds) {
this.db.run("INSERT INTO external_ids (provider, external_id, tenant_id, friend_id) VALUES (?, ?, ?, ?)",
ext.provider, ext.externalId, ext.tenantId ?? null, id)
}
}
async get(id: string): Promise<FriendRecord | null> {
const byId = this.db.get("SELECT record FROM friends WHERE id = ?", id)
if (byId) return JSON.parse(byId.record)
// UUID-then-name fallback (case-insensitive).
const byName = this.db.get("SELECT record FROM friends WHERE LOWER(name) = LOWER(?)", id)
return byName ? JSON.parse(byName.record) : null
}
async findByExternalId(provider: string, externalId: string, tenantId?: string): Promise<FriendRecord | null> {
const row = this.db.get(
"SELECT friend_id FROM external_ids WHERE provider = ? AND external_id = ? AND (? IS NULL OR tenant_id = ?)",
provider, externalId, tenantId ?? null, tenantId ?? null)
return row ? this.get(row.friend_id) : null
}
// delete / listAll / hasAnyFriends follow the same id-keyed-blob shape.
}GrantStore and MissionStore are the same shape — an id-keyed JSON blob. Swap any store in and
every import-safety invariant still holds, because they are structural properties of the domain
logic, not of the filesystem.
Examples — runnable, cross-agent proofs
Every guarantee above is demonstrated by a runnable script under examples/. Each
spins up two separate stores (often two separate friends-mcp processes) — two different
agents — exchanges real envelopes between them, and hard-asserts every invariant, printing a
green transcript per step and exiting non-zero (with a loud banner) on any violation. They are
git-free (the A2A demos exchange through a temp mailbox dir), so they reproduce anywhere with no
network.
npm run example:cross-agent-moat # identity join key + consent-gated profile share,
# first-party-inviolable, trust non-transitive
npm run example:mailbox-fallback # the git-mailbox FALLBACK: path-binding, replay-safety,
# spoof rejection, hostile-mailbox tamper
npm run example:cross-agent-mission-memory # the mission ledger: shareable vs private learnings,
# first-party-wins, status non-transitive
npm run example:cross-agent-standing # earned standing: first-party-only, never-on-the-wire,
# inert on trust
npm run example:cross-agent-coordination # the five coordination verbs end-to-end: assignment,
# non-transitive handoff, last-writer-wins, seeding gate
npm run example:cross-agent-delegation # own-fleet delegation: two of the owner's agents,
# same-account family (signed roster), connect_to link,
# A delegates → B performs → B returns the result → A
# imports it — every invariant hard-assertedRead them as the honest spec of what the package promises: if a guarantee weren't real, the matching example would exit 1.
Channels & observability
Each channel an agent speaks on (cli, teams, bluebubbles, mail, voice, a2a, inner,
mcp) has fixed capabilities — its sense type (open / closed / local / internal), which
integrations it exposes, and whether it supports markdown, streaming, and rich cards. Look them up
with getChannelCapabilities. The sense type, combined with trust, is what decides whether a
first-contact stranger reaches the full model on an open channel.
The package emits structured events through emitNervesEvent. By default these are dropped
(no-op), so the package is fully self-contained. To forward them to your logging / observability
pipeline, inject an emitter once at startup:
import { setNervesEmitter } from "@ouro.bot/friends"
setNervesEmitter((event) => {
// forward `event` to your logging / observability pipeline
})Design notes & status
Store-only, transport-agnostic, additive. The six layers were each built as a minimal primitive that does not modify the layers beneath it. The cross-agent envelopes are plain data; the wire is always the caller's job (the
./mailboxgit-mailbox is one optional, host-driven fallback). A CI-enforced dependency rule keeps the core from ever importing the transport.One persisted schema, additively grown. Records are
schemaVersion: 1; every layer added optional fields and sibling collections rather than changing existing meaning, so older data reads clean.Not a workflow engine. Each layer deliberately refuses the larger machine it brushes against: the mission ledger is not a knowledge base, standing is not a reputation engine, coordination is not a scheduler, and the delegation channel is a deliverable return — not a remote-exec grant. The discipline is the point.
Alpha. The surface is feature-complete across the six layers but pre-1.0 — expect additive changes, and pin a version. Feedback and issues are welcome.
Public API
Types: FriendRecord, FriendConnection, ExternalId, IdentityProvider, Integration,
Channel, TrustLevel, AgentMeta, AgentAttribution, RelationshipOutcome, NoteProvenance,
ImportedNote, ShareScope, ShareGrant, MissionKey, MissionLearning, ImportedLearning,
MissionRecord, CoordinationIntent, CoordinationLogEntry, MissionCoordination,
ChannelCapabilities, ResolvedContext, SenseType, Facing, TrustExplanation, TrustBasis,
Standing, StandingTier, StandingTally, StandingExplanation, StandingRule,
StandingRuleInput, FriendStore, GrantStore, MissionStore, FriendResolverParams,
GroupContextParticipant, GroupContextUpsertResult, UsageData, FriendOpResult,
FriendOpStatus, ApplyFriendNoteInput, WhoamiResult, RoomView, RoomMember, RoomKnownVia,
ConsentPolicy, ConsentRecipient, ConsentDecisionInput, AgentVerifier, ProfileShareEnvelope,
SharedNote, PrepareProfileShareInput, PrepareProfileShareResult, PrepareProfileShareStatus,
ImportProfileShareInput, ImportProfileShareOptions, ImportProfileShareResult,
ImportProfileShareStatus, GrantShareInput, RevokeShareResult, ListSharesFilter, ListedShare,
FileBundle, NervesEvent, NervesEmitter, LogLevel, RecordMissionInput,
MissionShareEnvelope, SharedLearning, PrepareMissionShareInput, PrepareMissionShareResult,
PrepareMissionShareStatus, ImportMissionShareInput, ImportMissionShareOptions,
ImportMissionShareResult, ImportMissionShareStatus, CoordinationEnvelope,
PrepareCoordinationInput, PrepareCoordinationResult, PrepareCoordinationStatus,
ImportCoordinationInput, ImportCoordinationOptions, ImportCoordinationResult,
ImportCoordinationStatus, SetFriendTrustContext, AuditSink, ControlPlaneAuditRecord,
ResolvedAgentIdentity, RosterStore, AccountRoster, RosterPin, RosterVerifier,
AccountMembershipDecision, AccountMembershipResult, EvaluateAccountMembershipInput,
FriendResolverRosterContext, ConnectPeer, ConnectAgentsInput, ConnectAgentsDeps,
ConnectResult, ConnectStatus, AuthorizeConnectInput, ConnectAuthorization, MissionTaskSpec,
MissionResult, MissionResultEnvelope, PrepareMissionResultInput, PrepareMissionResultResult,
PrepareMissionResultStatus, ImportMissionResultInput, ImportMissionResultOptions,
ImportMissionResultResult, ImportMissionResultStatus. (TrustBasis additively gains the
"same_account" member — the basis for family granted via the signed account roster — and AgentMeta
additively gains an optional identity { did, pinnedKey?, handle?, pinnedAt? } durable-identity home;
both are schemaVersion-1 additive, and a legacy a2a.did migrates-on-read into identity.did.
MissionRecord additively gains the own-fleet delegation namespaces delegations / importedDelegations
(gap-1) and results / importedResults (gap-2), and ControlPlaneAuditRecord.action widens additively
to "set_trust" | "connect".)
Values: TRUSTED_LEVELS, IDENTITY_SCOPES, isTrustedLevel, isIdentityProvider,
isIntegration, isShareScope, isCoordinationIntent, FileFriendStore, FileGrantStore,
grantsDirFor, FileMissionStore, missionsDirFor, openFileBundle, FriendResolver,
machineOwnerUsername, isLocalMachineOwnerIdentity, getChannelCapabilities, channelToFacing,
isRemoteChannel, getAlwaysOnSenseNames, describeTrustContext, assessStanding,
explainStanding, DEFAULT_STANDING_RULE, upsertGroupContextParticipants, accumulateFriendTokens,
applyFriendNote, setFriendTrust, linkExternalId, unlinkExternalId, upsertAgentPeer,
recordRelationshipOutcome, recordMission, whoami, resolveRoom, strictPolicy,
trustImpliedPolicy, tieredPolicy, DEFAULT_CONSENT_POLICY, tofuVerifier,
DEFAULT_AGENT_VERIFIER, prepareProfileShare, importProfileShare, prepareMissionShare,
importMissionShare, prepareCoordination, importCoordination, grantShare, revokeShare,
listShares, isGrantEffective, setNervesEmitter, emitNervesEvent, resolveAgentIdentity,
withMigratedIdentity, findFriendByDid, MemoryAuditSink, FileAuditSink, auditPathFor,
FileRosterStore, rostersDirFor, MemoryRosterStore, identityRosterVerifier,
DEFAULT_ROSTER_VERIFIER, evaluateAccountMembership, connectAgents, authorizeConnect,
prepareMissionResult, importMissionResult.
Delegation grants: checkPinnedDelegationGrant and the PinnedDelegationGrant type are for
hosts that keep delegated-command grants in their own trusted store; the friend-record
DelegationGrant is deprecated and never authority.
From @ouro.bot/friends/mcp: createFriendsMcpServer, getToolSchemas, runMain (plus the
McpToolSchema, FriendsMcpServer, and RunMainIo types).
From @ouro.bot/friends/mailbox: buildOutgoing, readIncoming, markSeen, isSeen,
compareReady, MAILBOX_VERSION (plus the MailboxMessage, BuildOutgoingInput,
BuildOutgoingResult, IncomingFile, IncomingMessage, ReadIncomingInput, ReadIncomingResult,
RejectedMessage, SeenLedger types).
From @ouro.bot/friends/a2a-client (the real-A2A adapter + the E2E overlay): sendShare,
receiveShare, resolveReachability; sealEnvelope / openSealedEnvelope; wrapInDataPart /
unwrapDataPart; buildFriendsAgentCard; DidVerifier, evaluateRotation, signSuccessor,
verifyCardDidBinding, pinOnFirstContact / isPinned / getPinned, MemoryPinStore; the
identity helpers parseDidKey / keyAgreementFromDidKey / didKeyIdentityFromEd25519 /
ed25519PubToDidKey and didWebToUrl / resolveDidWeb / parseDidDocument; the primitives
checkEnvelopeBinding (with the rejectUnboundEnvelopes option on receiveShare),
sealTo / openSealed, signEnvelope / verifyEnvelopeSignature, jcsString / jcsBytes, and
the ready init seam; and the account-roster Ed25519 verify ed25519RosterVerifier / signRoster
(the crypto implementation of the core RosterVerifier seam — host-injected, so the core stays
transport-free) (plus the A2ATransport, DidResolution, SealedEnvelope, StructuredProof,
ReachabilityPlan, FriendsAgentCard, DidKeyIdentity, DidDocument types). The transports
(direct A2A / relay / git op) are injected by the host — this module does no network or git itself.
License
Available Tools
14 toolschannel_capsB
Return the capabilities of a channel (integrations, markdown, streaming, rich cards, max length).
Inputs: channel (required).
describe_trustA
Explain the trust context for a friend: level, basis (direct/shared_group/unknown), what it permits and constrains.
Inputs: friendId (required), channel (required), isGroupChat.
get_friendA
Fetch a single friend record by uuid or by name.
Inputs: friendId (required).
link_identityA
Link an external identity to a friend, merging any orphan record that already holds it (cross-channel unification).
Inputs: friendId (required), provider (required), externalId (required), tenantId.
list_friendsB
List friend records, optionally filtered by trust level and kind, optionally limited.
Inputs: trust, kind, limit.
onboard_agentA
Upsert an agent-peer friend record from already-resolved coordinates (no HTTP card fetch).
Inputs: name (required), agentId (required), trustLevel, a2a, +1 more.
record_interactionB
Record a turn with a friend: accumulate token usage and/or append a shared-mission outcome (bumping familiarity).
Inputs: friendId (required), usage, outcome, familiarityDelta, +1 more.
resolve_partyA
Resolve an external identity (provider + externalId on a channel) into a friend record, creating one on first contact. Returns { friend, channel, created }.
Inputs: provider (required), externalId (required), displayName, channel, +1 more.
save_noteB
Save a friend's name, a tool preference, or a general note. Use override='true' to overwrite an existing value.
Inputs: friendId (required), type (required), content (required), key, +2 more.
set_trustB
Set a friend's trust level (also mirrors it onto the record's role).
Inputs: friendId (required), trustLevel (required).
unlink_identityC
Remove an external identity from a friend.
Inputs: friendId (required), provider (required), externalId (required).
upsert_groupB
Upsert shared-group participant context: link each participant to the group, promoting strangers to acquaintances.
Inputs: groupExternalId (required), participants (required).
whoamiB
Resolve who the machine owner is and which friend record represents the self.
Inputs: no named parameters.
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TDQS
Scored across 14 tools
Each tool has a clearly distinct purpose: channel capabilities, trust description, friend retrieval, identity linking, listing, onboarding, interaction recording, resolution, note saving, trust setting, profile sharing (reserved), unlink, group upsert, and self-identification. No two tools overlap in functionality.
Most tools follow a consistent verb_noun pattern (e.g., get_friend, set_trust), but channel_caps and whoami deviate slightly. Despite these minor exceptions, the naming is clear and predictable overall.
14 tools is well-scoped for a friends management server covering identity linking, trust, groups, notes, and interactions. Each tool addresses a specific need without unnecessary redundancy or bloat.
The surface covers core friend lifecycle, trust, identity linking, and group management. Minor gaps exist: no explicit delete/archive friend, no group retrieval beyond upsert, and no interaction querying. However, save_note can update friend names, and the set of tools is adequate for most agent workflows.
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